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Erin Hansen: Build A Thriving Family From By A Parenting Expert And Life Coach

Who Is Erin Hansen

Erin Hansen is an expert educator and a life coach. With a reputation of being nationally recognized and 25 years of career experience, you can definitely trust her expertise. As a life coach, she specializes in giving advice to parents who are struggling on raising their middle school kids. She believes that to be able to live harmoniously with your family, you need to have positive communication with each other such as understanding the needs of the children and parents as well. 

Her Coaching Methodology

She starts with clarity. She finds out every detail of the family such as their past, and most especially, what they’ve been going through. What’s great about Erin is that she listens with her heart. She deeply figures the problems and truthfully assesses the family if coaching is right for them. Some families have a bit more intensive problems that need therapy instead of coaching and she’s very honest letting parents know that. 

To effectively work with Erin, the relationship should be reciprocated. She coaches, and the parents must be coachable. A lot of parents think that they can leave all the work for the coach like coaches are going to make their kids great but what the parents don’t realize is that they must be willing to exert the effort themselves by being very much open,  able to communicate with their children and attempt to work on themselves as parents as well. That’s what Erin makes sure of.

Teaching Parents How To Deal With Their Kids and How Does Coaching Benefit Them

Every human has six basic needs and most people have certain needs which rank more important than others and they have learned to meet their needs in a variety of ways.  Kids going through adolescence want to satisfy their need for variety while parents’ need for stability and consistency may also trigger a conflict. This is where families start to mess up because while kids want to explore and enjoy adventure, parents want stability and safety for their children, which means their need for certainty is heightened during this time.  As a coach, Erin helps the parents to communicate effectively to their kids by being the first ones to understand their kids’ needs. By that, they realize where their kids are coming from or where the problem originated. Basically, these changes that occur are just part of their brain and hormones and normal adolescent development which kids don’t really understand much, and they don’t really have a choice but to go with it. 

With the coaching system that Erin provides, she is able to convince them to open up and be able to assess their needs, tailor the coaching, and finally make a collaborative effort for parents and kids to understand each other. She uses her own well-thought-of strategies such as using metaphors to understand their individual needs and giving homework assignments to understand each other better. 

The Generation Gap

Parents and teenagers are commonly disconnected from each other because of the generation gap. During teenage years, we explore our interests whether it’s sports, music, or other activities . The turmoil during this time affects so much of the teens’ character and most parents are just thinking that when their kids get older they’ll just come up on their senses and go back to being their usual kids. With Erin as a coach, you can have an option not to just wait it out until your kid overcomes adolescence but to continuously connect with them and be the one who will teach them that life will always have bumps on the road but it doesn’t have to be so horrible if the family stays connected with each other.

Research shows that relationships are what matters most so when a child is not close to anybody at home, they may end up having self-destructive behaviors that make them find security and confidence from other things or people. Building relationships with them at these times will help them seek these needs in a healthy way and when something messes up, they will have the ability to learn how to cope. Parents should be there for their kids because they are the ones who must teach these coping skills when life becomes tough.

One Great Advice From A Phenomenal Life Coach

Many parents are inadvertently pressuring their children to achieve certain grades, status, etc. as young as elementary school. This has a lot to do with the immense competition of college acceptance and what the parents perceive as ending up successful as an adult whether that be schooling or career choice. What parents don’t realize is that the pressure being put on their children 10+ years before reaching adulthood is causing them a disservice. Parent support must take on a different approach during adolescence. Success should not be measured by academics; rather, it should be measured by their ability to learn and relearn, connect and engage with their teachers and parents, and find passion in things outside of school that give them confidence.

To connect with Erin Hansen, visit her LinkedIn and Twitter Account.

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