How To Attract Healthy Relationships

Apollonia Ponti is a world renowned relationship coach, certified dating expert, entrepreneur, and highly sought after speaker, who specializes in coaching thousands of men all over the globe in her own strategized healthy approach to dating and relationships. In less than 3 years, Apollonia Ponti has amassed 70 Million Views and 525,000 subscribers on YouTube. Her dating expertise has been featured in Forbes, Inc, Yahoo Finance, ABC, The CW, and Telemundo. 

Apollonia helps guide men to understand how to connect with women and build a legacy in their relationships and in this article she illustrates how anyone, no matter what walk of life they come from, can have and attract a healthy relationship.

Tip #1: You Need to be Healthy…

Having a healthy relationship with yourself is the first step to attracting a healthy relationship. This is crucial and the most important when it comes to attracting and finding love.  You need to be completely authentic and make sure you understand yourself  and know who you truly are and what you want in a relationship so that you can move forward in a relationship and grow. We need to be our most authentic selves, because if we are not ourselves and we mask our identity in the beginning of the relationship, this will end badly! 

Be yourself! 

So many of us walk through life attaching to other individuals to feel loved and validated by someone else’s existence.

When you have a partner that is insecure in a relationship you bring the other person down with you.

So be Yourself and be confident with you are! Love yourself first! 

Tip #2 Have a Sustainable Foundation in Your Relationship…

If you have a house, would you want it to be built on a strong foundation or quicksand?

I’m sure you would pick a strong foundation, and that is how your relationship should be built off of, a strong firm foundation.

You build a strong firm foundation by setting boundaries in your relationship and diagnosing exactly what you want and why. 

So many people just say they want respect, but you need to take the time to understand what that means to you. 

 When you get clear on setting boundaries and your partner does not show up this does not mean you need to stick around to convince them. They should be able to see you for who you are and build a partnership that understands compromise. 

The key to setting boundaries is knowing the WHY on what it is that you want. Of course, do it in a respectful way and know how to communicate. 

Tip #3: Be Supportive of Your Partner…

Life will always throw each and everyone one of us curve balls, but it’s about how we decide to handle these curveballs that are out of our control.

Your partner may lose their job or an illness strikes your family.

How would your partner handle this?

Healthy relationships are tested by how you handle challenges and unfortunately a lot of people are getting this wrong.

Discontinue the I’m sorry behaviors during tough times. 

Find someone who knows how to solve problems and handles them and sticks by your side! 

This is how you will grow in your relationship!

When we are in a healthy relationship we can feel more driven in life, we feel supported, we also challenge ourselves to grow as a person and best of all, we feel heard. This comes from a place of understanding, this is what most of us long for, to feel acceptance from someone we love and adore. 

You are the true master of your life. You have the power to change your personal relationships, work relationships, your love relationships. You have the power to change every relationship in your life.

And by using these 3 tips you are on your way to finding the person you desire and deserve!